The Beginner’s Guide to BDSM is a 45-minute DVD which does exactly what it says.

If you are a couple of beginners, curious about getting into BDSM, you simply cannot do better than this DVD.

Mistress Absolute is an experienced dominatrix who leads a couple of novices, Mike and Jane, through the basics and sets them on a path to enjoying their kinky sexuality in a way that’s fun, safe and provides an attractive doorway to the fetish / BDSM world.

Our novice couple are first introduced to spanking and light bondage. Absolute is great at putting them at ease and allowing them to explore at their own pace, finding out what works for them and what doesn’t.

Mike and Jane never seem to feel uncomfortable as they gradually explore blindfolds, roleplay, cross dressing and switching their sub/dom roles – and they learn fast.

Absolute judges the mood perfectly – serious enough to be sexy, yet with enough humour and sympathy to be fun. She takes Mike and Jane to a fetish shop and then to their first fetish club. You feel that, thanks to this introduction, they’ve discovered a new side to their relationship and they will be relaxed and happy pervs for years to come.

If you are a couple of beginners, curious about getting into BDSM, you simply cannot do better than this DVD. £24.99 from here.

Polly Superstar’s New Book

Polly Superstar is our great friend from the wild frontier of San Francisco.

Polly Superstar
  • Twitter
  • Google +
  • Tumblr
She’s the founder of the famous Kinky Salon – see photo of her doing research with yours truly.

Over 13 years ago, Polly Whittaker began forging the new frontier of sexual expression. It began as a simple idea: to create an environment in which people could express themselves sexually in a social context in a way that’s not seedy or creepy, traditionally the case when talking about sexuality.

With the help of hundreds of volunteers, she built Kinky Salon, a creative and sex-positive environment, that has since turned it into a global movement, with events happening in a dozen cities all over the world

Get her new book “Sex Culture Revolutionary” You can pledge just a couple of dollars – or right up to $1,200 for a private party in the Bay Area! Join me and pledge here

Submissive Women and Their Doms

The Chardmore Society is a new, semi-private club for submissive women and their doms (or dommes).

Submissive Women and Their Doms
  • Twitter
  • Google +
  • Tumblr
We’re going to have a Sunday afternoon party on 30th March, from 3 pm to 8pm.

The venue is just outside London, near Heathrow. If you are coming from a distance, there’s a Premier Inn very nearby.

Our aim is to have around 40 people, making a decent gathering – but not too crowded.

Single sub women are welcome, but no single men – sorry guys.

Entry is only £15 per person, all prepaid – no admission on the door. We want to keep it a friendly and exclusive group of femsub people.

If you want to drink alcohol, feel free to bring your own. Soft drinks are on sale at the bar.

Visit the website


sex toys
  • Twitter
  • Google +
  • Tumblr