Secrets – Fetish Thursdays in the City
Thursday 5th August, 7pm-midnight
The Chardmore Society joins forces with Le Boudoir, London’s elite swinger club, to bring you a fetish night in the heart of the city. Our venue is an atmospheric former Victorian hospital, now a private club with three floors of debauchery.
On the ground floor, enter to find a cool fully licensed bar with a gallery above, where you can relax over a cocktail. On the upper floor, you will find a big playroom space and lockable rooms for those who like to play in private. There is no strict dress code, but you are warmly encouraged to dress up. There’s a changing room and cupboards to store your street clothes.
Venture down the stone staircase to the spacious dungeon below and you’re in BDSM heaven, with plenty of dungeon furniture and lots of space to play. (Always bring your own personal items, like floggers, paddles, etc, for hygiene reasons.)
All this is very near a tube station in London E1. Parking is free after 7pm. All ticket holders are sent the full address.
Tickets are £50 for a m/f couple, £15 for a single female and £70 for a single male. If you would like to come, email Tim for a link to get tickets. If I don’t know you, please say a few words to introduce yourself. Please be sure to say what sort of ticket you would like; single man, single woman or couple. Email here
Chardmore Society Play Party
Our Friendly South London Play Party.
Thursday 19th August, 6pm-10pm
This is a kinky play party, for good humoured people of all persuasions. It’s is a friendly little affair – expect up to around fifteen to twenty people. There’s a lounge area for socialising, a well equipped dungeon and several bedrooms you can use if you get really friendly…
There is no compulsory dress code – you can wear what you like. A few guys cross dress, some women wear fetish, one gentleman always wears nothing at all and quite a few people coming directly from work wear ordinary clothes. (Always arrive in street clothes, though, so as not to alarm the neighbours! You can change and shower at the venue.)
You can play all you like – but our parties are relaxed, there is no pressure and newcomers are very welcome. All ages are welcome too – just be nice people! We don’t sell alcohol, so please bring your own booze.
House dominatrix on Thursday 19th is the beautiful, educated and charming Lilin Huntress – see photo. Come and meet her in person at the party. (Lilin_Huntress on fetlife)
Our venue is a large and pleasant house in Sutton, South London. Trains to Sutton are really easy and only 30 mins from Victoria – make sure you get the faster train. Parking nearby is easy and free. The full address is emailed to all ticket holders. Please note that cameras and drugs of any kind are NOT allowed at our parties – see our guide to dungeon etiquette here
Tickets are £50 per M/F couple, £30 per t-girl or single woman and £60 per single man (+ booking fee.) Book here.
The SM Guys Party
A Safe Space for Bi, Gay & Curious Men into BDSM.
Thursday 26th August, 6pm-10pm
This is a friendly little party for nice guys into BDSM – gay or bi or not quite sure… There is no pressure to play, although there is a well equipped dungeon.
This is not a rough “meat market” – other clubs cater for that. This is a relaxed place to hang out and play if you wish, without pressure.
This is a safe space for men-only bondage, CP, role play, rubber, uniforms, suits etc. Sub or dom or not sure all welcome!
Whether you are gay or bi, experienced or a curious newcomer, you are welcome at this party, hosted by Tim Woodward of the Chardmore Society.
One important point – all our parties are totally drug-free. No drugs at all are allowed – not even poppers. Don’t even think about it…
We don’t allow anything dangerous – so no needles, knives or blood! If you make a mess, you clear it up!
N.B. Always bring your own toys along, for obvious reasons.
We do not serve drinks, so bring your own booze.
You are very welcome to dress how you like and you can change and shower at the venue. However, please arrive and leave in street clothes, so you don’t frighten the neighbours! We don’t allow anything dangerous – so no needles, knives or blood. As with all our parties, this is a drug-free zone.
If you are a guy who fancies some men-only SM, this is for you. (If you are a dominatrix and your slave needs a lesson, feel free to send him to us – with instructions).
Richmond BDSM by the River
Come and Meet Our Friendly Group in a Nice Riverside Pub.
Monday 30th August, 7pm – 10pm
Richmond BDSM is a friendly meeting for a drink and a chat in a nice riverside pub beside Teddington Lock. Anyone is welcome, it’s free of charge and the pub even has nice food!
This is an ideal way to meet BDSM people from around West London, Surrey and Middlesex – without having to go to a fetish club and shout above the music. It’s ideal for newcomers, or anyone who doesn’t like noisy clubs.
This is a totally ‘vanilla’ event – meaning there is no BDSM play going on. And please don’t come dressed up in rubber – this is a family pub! Just come in your jeans and hang out for a chat.
Meetings are from 7pm, but feel free to turn up any time – we usually stay until at least 10pm. If you can’t spot where we are sitting, just phone 07941 506 922 and we’ll find you!
Please note, due to covid, you must register for our pub meeting, just so the pub knows how many are coming. Otherwise, there may not be a seat for you! It is free of charge and of course you get the address – please register here
The Most Exclusive Fetish Dinner Party
In a Medieval Chapel in the Grounds of a Beautiful Country House near Paris.
Saturday 11th September
How’s this for something really special post covid! An elegant fetish event in an an ancient chapel, just South of Fontainebleau. The Roaring SM/Art 2021 Event, hosted by my friend Gérard Musy, stars Mistress Isabella Sinclaire from Los Angeles. Also featuring Mistress Eva Oh (TBC), Mistress Manouche, Mistress Maya Sin & Mistress Melisande Sin.
The event will begin at 5pm, with champagne in the garden, and appetisers in the house. Then we will have a candlelit dinner in a medieval chapel with distinguished guests (40 persons max.) dressed in fetish costume (dinner jacket and evening gown optional), with top dominatrixes.
After dinner, the Mistress Isabella and Big Game and the Beyond Phantasmagoria shows will be projected.To crown the party, The Lioness of the Night, Mistress Isabella Sinclaire will start the play with an elegant BDSM scene…
To see full details, ticket prices, photos, video and contact information, click on the photos or go here Get the new flyer with all the party details here
Suited Male – naked female party
What a Decadent Way to Spend a Sunday Afternoon.
Sunday 19th September, 2pm-7pm
This is an exclusive party for couples into “CMnf”. The men are all elegantly dressed in suits, evening wear or smart uniforms. Their women are naked, apart from high heels, stockings, etc. Very skimpy and revealing lingerie is permitted.
Women may be on a collar and leash. The dress code is obligatory. Nobody is admitted who is not properly dressed.
This is a safe and discreet space for couples only. Everyone is vetted and no single men are admitted. To see full details of this party and apply for a ticket, go here