Dr. Justin Lehmiller is an experienced researcher and
educator on the psychology of human sexuality, and he put those skills to work for his latest book “Tell Me What You Want” based on the largest ever sampling of American sexual fantasies. From the most common to the most shameful, from group sex to cuckolding to penis size, Dr. Lehmiller reveals the surprising private truths behind the fantasies we all have.
Show Notes:
01:49 How he got into sexual psychology research.
04:35 There isn’t much sexual education in American, and much of it isn’t helpful.
06:47 His latest book “Tell Me What You Want”, is based on the most exhaustive study of American sexual fantasies.
08:33 Shame and guilt about sexual fantasies is very common and problematic.
13:04 Understanding rape fantasies.
19:00 Is consentual non-consent porn harmful?
23:12 What is the most common sexual fantasy?
27:58 Threesomes – Fanatsy vs Reality.
34:12 Cuckolding fantasies.
38:37 Is porn addiction real?
44:46 Does penis size matter?
51:05 Common myths: Passion is everlasting.
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